I have had it. No more tippy, tippy toeing around, folks.
I have been holding off on making any public Facebook posts about the pro-choice issue because it was one of the last couple of areas I hadn’t caught H-E-double hockey sticks for from my family. Yesterday, though, I got a lovely (not really) private message from my annoyingly holier-than-pretty-much-everybody cousin accusing me of being an Atheist and wanting to know what went wrong. I kid you not.
You know why? Because I have steadfastly refused to repost anything from that embarrassment to our state Mike Huckabee’s public statements. Because I do NOT support Chick-Fil-A. Because I have shouted loud and long about the evils of legislation intermixing with religion. I’ll tell you what went wrong, ma’am. Religious fanatics have been trying to overtake our government and turn it into Nehemiah Scudder-ville. I don’t want to live in Scudder-ville. Arkansas is bad enough.
I refuse to skirt the issues anymore. Y’all thought I was outspoken before, you ain’t seen nothing yet.
We now return to regular programming, already in progress………………….
(thank you to Liberal Hippie Nerd from whom I reposted the graphic on my Facebook feed. It’s a great page, check it out.)
See, here’s the thing. I keep my Facebook alive mostly because it is the easiest way to keep in touch with several old friends I will almost certainly never see in person again. Unfortunately I cannot stand to see others continuous ideological, religious, & political posts without posting some of my own. Wouldn’t you know it, every time I do, it seems I pee in somebody’s petunias.
This was followed shortly afterwards with this:
Now here’s where I am genuinely curious about internet etiquette. I make it a habit never to post argumentative commentary on friends’ posts. If I feel I just have to say something and I know it will either offend my friend or go completely against what they believe, I go around their re-post to the original page and post my comment there. I tend to think that is just the tactful, polite way to behave.
While I certainly would never seek to bar my friends from posting or make them feel their opinions or thoughts are unwelcome, I still kinda’ think it would just be more polite to simply re-post on your own page and make your comments there, or do it on the main page. If you don’t agree with a post, why argue on their public wall? That puts the first poster in the position of either having to defend their post or to let contrary opinions stay under it, and all in front of every friend who can access their wall. It just seems a bit tactless to me. Sometimes it seems to me that many social media sites are slowly being taken over by a cacophony of squabbling.
What do you think?
Thank you to the Facebook page of Liberal Hippie Nerd, from whom I re-posted the above graphic. It’s a great page, check it out sometime.
The original exchange on Facebook has been altered. I noticed I had left out the key word “not” in my comment on the upper percent. It now reads “not to pay a decent percentage.” What can ya’ say, you forget some of those connecting words when you are typing long responses.
Okay, so I wasn’t all that nice. In my defense, if you lack a sense of humor and are blessed with hyper-active and easily hurt feelings, you should probably not hang out on an off-color adult oriented humor page.
Sometimes, I just can’t help myself.
My comment would, of course, be the last one. My troll refuses to talk to me now. Sniff.